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Veronica Wolff on Diane Keaton

Veronica in her fab specs.

Veronica in her fab specs.

I love Veronica Wolff. We met accidentally, at a dinner with Anne Mallory and Bella Andre (two other favorites of mine), and I knew then, in between the laughs and the stories, that we’d be fast friends. It’s probably because she’s a tall woman with a big smile. I like those things in a person.

Since then, I’ve come to love every one of Veronica’s books–which she writes in about a bajillion genres because she’s far more organized and put together than I am–I mean, the woman can write a hunk in a kilt like nobody’s business (I’m looking at you, Cormac MacAlpin) and a big-city-girl-gone-small-town contemporary to make you sigh like mad (see her latest, Timber Creek, for proof). 

So, when I discovered that she’s also a girl who wears glasses, I thought, “Of course she is. She’s just that awesome.” I am thrilled to host Veronica here to talk about her favorite lady in lenses–the incomparable Diane Keaton (for the record, also tall with a big smile). 

Welcome Veronica! 

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Keaton the Coolest

Keaton the Coolest

Little round ones, clunky square ones, ones that are tinted purple, green, or amber…Diane Keaton has worn them all.

She’s an actress. Director and producer. A mom. A conservationist. A trendsetter in ties and fedoras…and glasses. As I get older, I look for role models. I don’t want to become one of those women who fights the years with scalpels and fillers. I want to go the Diane Keaton route. No nips or tucks. Instead, I’ll rock a pair of John Lennon specs with tinted lenses, or maybe something in leopard. Something Ms. Keaton might wear.

On her, glasses aren’t defeat. Glasses aren’t second best. They’re fierce. They’re a statement. They make her look independent and strong. They’re stylish as hell. She looks like the person you’d want to sit next to at a dinner party. The one in the room who knows her own mind. The sort of woman who might sing at a nightclub, or write a book, or date a famous movie star, or be someone’s muse. And you’d be right—she’s done all those things.

Do men make passes at women in glasses? Hellz yeah. Just ask Diane Keaton. Men love her, but you see, that’s beside the point. She’s cool just as she is, and we love her for it.

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She is SO COOL. I want to be Diane Keaton when I grow up. Seriously. 

Giveaway time! Veronica is offering up  a signed copy of her latest, Timber Creek, and a copy of Devil’s Own, featuring her own bespectacled heroine, Elspeth Farquharson, who would have made a great friend to Pippa.

And because I’m crazy about Keaton, too…I’m throwing in a DVD of my favorite of her movies — Manhattan Murder Mystery (which, aside, Eric thinks I only love because I would absolutely 100% do what she does in this flick)!  

To win, comment below with your favorite longstanding actress! We’ll choose a winner (US Only) on Wednesday! 


Sabrina Darby and Angelina Whitcombe are here!

Love this cover!

I’m the luckiest writer in the world.

I know, I know…Stephen King seems pretty lucky. Salman Rushdie survived a fatwa. Whatever. I’m throwing my hat in the ring for this one, because I’m pretty sure neither Stephen nor Salman have critique partners as awesome as mine. They’re a tremendous trio–Sabrina Darby, Sophie Jordan and Carrie Ryan read everything that I write. They tell me I’m terrible when I’m terrible. They tell me what’s wrong when I can’t see it. And they tell me I’m fabulous when I’m fairly certain they’d rather bang heads against the wall.

This all said, today, July 31st (Happy Birthday, Harry Potter!), two of these fabulous ladies have new releases out! So this is the part where I get to give back and tell *you* that they’re fabulous. And I don’t want to bang my head against the wall even a little. We’re going to talk about Sophie later this week (why not read her book in advance of that blog post?)…but today, we’re going to talk about the amazing Sabrina, whom I met at our first RWA, four years ago in Washington, DC, and whom I have loved ever since.

Here’s proof:

Ok. So here’s the deal. A year ago, Sabrina and I joined some other fabulous authors over at The Ballroom Blog; we have to blog at least once a month over there, and one day, in discussion of what on earth I was going to blog about next, Sabrina said something along the lines of, “I have the best idea ever.” (Ok, not really that, because Sabrina is much more modest…but it *could* have been that.)

The idea was this: What was the Regency equivalent of Match.com? And what if someone’s mom did what embarrassing moms do in the 21st Century, and essentially, posted a profile? And what happens if, when one answered that profile, they had to travel into the hinterlands to meet a grouchy, handsome war hero?

What. Indeed.

The idea became a few posts on The Ballroom Blog…and then a novella: The Short & Fascinating Tale of Angelina Whitcombe! (Which is only .99 and the best dollar you’ll ever spend!) Also…check out the acknowledgments!

Squee!!! That’s my name in there!

And I am so so so excited to tell you that I ADORE this story. So much, that last week, while goofing off with Sabrina in my hotel room at RWA, I made her do an 11 questions video (and yes…Sophie makes an appearance)…oh…and I totally lied to her and told her I’d cut part of it out. I didn’t. So enjoy our giggling!


So! You heard it…What’s the one thing your mom has done that has embarrassed you more than anything else? Leave the answer in comments, and we’ll choose one commenter to win a copy of this awesome story! We’ll choose the winner tomorrow (Wednesday)!


Elizabeth Gilbert on Creativity

I love TED Talks. Love love love them.

But this one, by Elizabeth Gilbert, talking about creativity, and her struggle with writing the book after the MASSIVE Eat. Pray. Love.

If you have ever had doubt about your own ability to tackle a challenging project…you MUST watch this.


My favorite poet: Edna St. Vincent Millay

I love Edna St. Vincent Millay. The first woman to receive the Pulitzer Prize for poetry, she has a powerful, lyric voice, one that is heavy with emotion and depth and something that just cuts me to the core.

None of her poems strike me quite as powerfully as this sonnet, however:

Time does not bring relief; you all have lied
Who told me time would ease me of my pain!
I miss him in the weeping of the rain;
I want him at the shrinking of the tide;
The old snows melt from every mountain-side,
And last year’s leaves are smoke in every lane;
But last year’s bitter loving must remain
Heaped on my heart, and my old thoughts abide!

There are a hundred places where I fear
To go, — so with his memory they brim!
And entering with relief some quiet place
Where never fell his foot or shone his face
I say, “There is no memory of him here!”
And so stand stricken, so remembering him!

It never fails to bring tears to my eyes. It’s so incredibly powerful.  When I’m writing, I read Millay’s poems often…I’m always trying to figure out how she takes 100 words to rouse the same amount of feeling that it takes me 90,000 words to rouse. I don’t know that I’ll ever fully understand it…


The Music that Makes the Magic Happen

I know I’ve been remiss in blogging recently and I’m sorry, y’all…suffice to say, Juliana is keeping me very busy (is that a valid enough reason for leaving you hanging?)!

So…I don’t really have time to blog today, as I’ve got a goal to reach by tomorrow…but I did think you might like to see a list of the music that is helping me keep the words coming these days.  I’m linking to the songs wherever I can find them…but I encourage you to buy the mp3s (also linked) if you like them.  Singer/songwriters need the love!

Beautiful World – Colin Hay (mp3)
Better Together – Jack Johnson (mp3)
Darlin’ Do Not Fear – Brett Dennen (mp3)
I’m Yours – Jason Mraz (mp3)
Under Pressure – Queen & David Bowie (mp3)
Minha Neguinha – Cibelle (mp3)
Like a Luminous Girl – Mike Doughty (mp3 not available (?!?) but you can buy the album)
Overlap – Ani Difranco (mp3)
What a Good Boy – Barenaked Ladies (mp3)
Common People - William Shatner, featuring Joe Jackson (mp3)

Also, I’m starting a new Pandora station at MacLeanMusic, where I’ll add songs that inspire me as I find them.  Pandora’s part of the Music Genome Project, which is super duper awesome–it processes the songs/artists you like, and then introduces you to new songs/artists you might like.  I love it.  A lot. Friend me there, and we can share tunes!


Give to a Good Cause. Get Something Fab!

There are lots of cool things about being a romance novelist: publishing with a company you’ve been logo stalking for your whole life; becoming friends with romance novelists you’ve admired for ages (I’m looking at you Sophie Jordan); oh, yeah…writing books for a living…

But today I’m feeling particularly happy to be a part of a huge community of writers, agents, editors and others in romance who have come together to raise money for an important cause – Diabetes research.  The incredible Brenda Novak runs an annual online auction to raise money for a cure for diabetes.  Her ridiculously adorable son (see photo – I mean, come on, is that kid cute or WHAT?!) was diagnosed with Type I Diabetes several years ago, and Brenda marshalled the troops–and these are some top-notch troops!

Authors, editors, celebs and others donate everything from books to goodies to meals to manuscript critiques to the auction…as of last year, Brenda raised more than $700,000 during the six years she’s been running the fundraiser.  This year, the goal is to top $1,000,000.  To do that, she needs you.

Here are some things you can bid on that sound particularly awesome:

1. OMG LUNCH WITH ELOISA JAMES. A-hem. Yes. You can have lunch with the fab Eloisa James at RWA this year.  If you win, can you ask her if the Earl of Mayne is based on someone real? Because I honestly would leave my husband for him. No. I’m kidding.  Not really. Yes. Really. Mayne, call me. 

2. Career counseling (for you and three friends) with Elizabeth Hoyt. Uhm. If I had Elizabeth Hoyt’s career, I would be very very happy.  So, yeah.  You want this. I’m assuming this is particularly good if you want to be a romance novelist.  Not, like, a dental hygienist. 

3. A Star Trek photo, autographed by William Shatner!!! Ok, I know it’s weird.  But I seriously LOVE William Shatner.  Love him. This makes me all fangirly.  It should make you fangirly, too.  

4. Evaluation of a Proposal by the amazing Tessa Woodward at Avon Books… Tessa is amazing… and I know from personal experience that she also happens to be brilliant. If you’re serious about your work, she’s the person to share it with. 

5. This one sounds so fun!  A Victorian Tea Leaf reading set from Deanna Raybourn…including everything you need to prognosticate with the leaves in your favorite cup.  

And, yes…I’m in the mix, too.  I’m happy to offer a 50-page manuscript critique to anyone who thinks my two cents are worth…well…more than two cents.

It’s a great cause, y’all.

Get out there. Bid. Change the world.


Anna Reiley on Inside the Character’s Studio!

Ok…it’s no secret that I have a major friend crush on the fabulous Sarah Ockler. We’ve got some weird cosmic similarities that are seriously freaky-deaky. First, we’re both named Sarah. Second, Sarah’s husband grew up literally across the street from where my parents lived when they first moved to the US in Flushing, Queens, NYC. How did we discover this? Sarah actually *recognized* the spot where this photo was taken. While she was reading my blog. Which brings me eerie similarity #3–we’re both awesome.

So…I am SO SO SO excited to host Anna Reiley, the star of Sarah’s Twenty Boy Summer on the blog today.

While on vacation in California, sixteen-year-old best girlfriends Anna and Frankie conspire to find a boy for Anna’s first summer romance, but Anna harbors a painful secret that threatens their lighthearted plan and their friendship.

TWENTY BOY SUMMER is a debut YA novel that explores what it truly means to love someone, what it means to grieve, and ultimately, how to make the most of every single moment this world has to offer.

Welcome, Anna!

What is your favorite word?
Love.

What is your least favorite word?
Lost.

What turns you on creatively, spiritually or emotionally?
Being outdoors and connecting with the universe through nature. Traveling also does it for me, now that I finally get to go somewhere interesting! But mostly, I just like to be outside in the sun, no matter where I am.

What turns you off?
When people apologize for something they didn’t do simply because they don’t know what else to say, or when they try to force conversation just to fill the space so they don’t have to feel awkward around you. I wish they would just be quiet, because sometimes there just aren’t any words for something.

What is your favorite curse word?
I don’t curse that much, so I save it all up for the big one. ;-)

What sound or noise do you love?
The sound of Matt’s voice reading to me. Some days I wake up and think of him and his voice goes hazy in my memory. I’m so scared of forgetting the sound of it.

What sound or noise do you hate?
Tires screeching, and the song that was playing that day… Casey Jones.

What profession would you like to attempt?
I think I’d like to work with other teens and kids who just need someone to talk to and listen to them, especially if they’ve gone through something traumatic. Maybe a counselor or social worker.

What profession would you not like to do?
Hair stylist or makeup artist. I leave all things glamorous in Frankie’s capable hands.

If Heaven exists, what would you like to hear God say when you arrive at the Pearly Gates?
“Matt! She’s here!”

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Check out other interviews from Inside the Characters’ Studio here.


On my turntable…

Ok, I lie. I don’t have a turntable. Eric does, but I am not allowed to use it. Ok, that’s a lie, too. I’m sure that if I wanted to play a record he would allow me access to the little black square that sits in his office…assuming it’s not a Barenaked Ladies record. That’s where he draws the line.

But admit, you liked the idea that I had a turntable. And then you liked the idea that Eric holds sway over the use of vinyl in my house.

I digress. This is a post about the music that I am in love with today. I know that wasn’t very clear. I hope it is now, though.

I’m totally obsessed with Ani DiFranco’s Red Letter Year these days. I love it. Love it. LOVE IT. Now, as I’ve mentioned before, I’m a huge Ani fan. For a number of reasons, not the least of which is the fact that I can map much of my adult life (including my relationship with Eric) to Ani concerts: the first time Eric came to visit me in NYC, we saw her play acoustic at Carnegie Hall; the day I moved into my first NYC apt without a roommate, Eric and I lay on my bed and listened to Reveling/Reckoning while the summer breeze blew the curtains over our heads; Little Plastic Castle is the second song on the mix cd Eric made in honor of our wedding; and the day I sold my first adult romance to Avon, November 21st 2008, we saw Ani play at Town Hall.

One might say that if my life were a Paul Thomas Anderson film, she would be my Aimee Mann.

Red Letter Year is one of her more recent albums…and when you listen to it, you can’t help but notice an new, wonderful, loving, happy Ani. And perhaps it’s because she played so many of these beautiful, lyric, happy songs at the Town Hall concert on a day when I was so very very happy myself that I think this album (of all of them) speaks to me the most.

You can listen to it for free over at Ani’s website. And if you only listen to one song on it…listen to Landing Gear. or The Atom. or Present/Infant. *sigh* you see my problem?


Ze Frank Makes Me Less Scared

Today, I need Ze.


In which cory doctorow is a smartypants…

On the long list of things I like, Cory Doctorow ranks pretty high. I think he’s thoughtful and interesting and the fact that he refers to YA sections of bookstores as “Parallel universes of little-regarded awesomeness” only makes him that much better.

As you know, I’ve been a bad writer recently (ok, ok, let’s refrain from making the obvious snarky retort here…’recently?’…you’re very funny), and yesterday Eric found this piece of genius somewhere online…Cory Doctorow: Writing in the Age of Distraction from Locus Magazine, in which the Doctorow shares his tips and tricks for writing on a machine that is basically connected to everyone, everywhere, all the time. Certainly my computer is one of the biggest problems with my work regime…if I can twacespacechatbookmail instead of writing, I will.

Enter CD, and his six techniques to staying “on top of your workload and your muse.”

1. Keep a short, regular work schedule
2. Leave yourself a rough edge
3. Don’t research
4. Don’t be ceremonious
5. Kill your word-processor
6. Realtime communications tools are deadly

I’m intrigued by this list…and have tried to incorporate it into my writing this weekend. Here’s what I’m thinking:

1. Of course, the short, regular work schedule is critical. Writing is a skill more than a talent, and practice definitely brings us closer to perfect. Also, I find that if you get out of the habit for even one day, you’ve got an enormous uphill battle coming when you start again.

2. This is my favorite of his techniques. CD says, “when you hit your daily word-goal, stop. Stop even if you’re in the middle of a sentence. Especially if you’re in the middle of a sentence.” I love this, because the next day, when you start, you don’t have to think at all about what to write first. You finish the sentence. A friend who is working on her Ph.D. told me that she refers to this as “Parking on the Down Slope.” I call it awesome.

3. I’m struggling with don’t research, frankly. I write historical, so the research process is critical. While I definitely see his point that a half-hour researching what kind of pants Regency men wore to the opera is not helping the arc of my story at all, I also know that, for me, I need to have those details in my head to make a scene as rich as possible. I’m gong to try leaving that stuff out and then returning to fill in the research, but I’m not sure it will work for me.

4. I can’t agree more with him on Don’t Be Ceremonious. I carry a notebook with me and write longhand as much as possible. This means writing on the subway, in line for my morning coffee, waiting for friends in restaurants and on my couch. Write when you find time. It helps with keeping your skills honed.

5. He’s basically saying here that you shouldn’t be formatting/spellchecking/etc. I get this, and respect his ability to ignore bells and whistles, but the idea of a .txt document scares the bejeezus out of me.

6. Agree. IM is a time suck. As are all the others. I turn off my AirPort when I write. This doesn’t mean that the first thing I do when I pause isn’t check my email. But it helps not to see the message indicator pop up.

I would add one thing to his list….the thing that works best for me…Write long hand as much as possible. That way, you’re not only not distracted, but when you type your words into your computer eventually, you’re actually on your second draft…not your first. Also, I feel way less pressure to write something good if I’m scrawling in a notebook.

Ok…thoughts? additions? what’s your trick for staying focused on writing in this insanely distracting world?